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Let’s dive into a topic that’s both simple and profound: the power of our words. The words we use every day significantly impact the quality of our experiences and literally are a catalyst in shaping our future experiences.
Today we are going to focus on two words and the difference in the vibration they hold. By simply switching from this one word to another you can transform your mindset, elevate your vibration, and begin to create the reality you truly desire.
When used in the phrase “I HAVE to” reveals a conditioned mindset that often leads to feelings of obligation and reluctance.
Using “have to” sends a signal to your system that you’re not enthusiastic about the task, which can lower your frequency and energy.
Moreover, the universe responds to the energy of our words. When we say, “I have to,” the universe interprets this as a preference for obligatory tasks and will summon more situations that feel like burdens.
When used in the phrase “I GET to” you can dramatically change your perspective and energy.
When we use “get to,” we align ourselves with a vibration of gratitude and opportunity. The universe responds to this energy by providing more experiences that we are genuinely happy and grateful to receive.
Our words are like seeds we plant in the fertile soil of our minds and the vast field of universal energy. The choice between “have to” and “get to” isn’t just semantic; it’s energetic. “Have to” plants seeds of obligation and resistance, while “get to” sows seeds of gratitude and opportunity.
Each time we speak or think, we’re programming our subconscious and sending ripples into the energetic fabric of our reality. By consciously choosing “get to” over “have to,” we’re not just changing our language; we’re recoding our entire experience of life and the way we interact with the universe.
Pay attention to how often you use “have to” versus “get to” in your self-talk. Are you inadvertently reinforcing a mindset of obligation, or are you cultivating an attitude of appreciation and opportunity?
Think of yourself as the coach of your own life team. A great coach does not focus on burdens and obligations but on opportunities for growth and achievement. Start treating yourself with the same positive outlook. When you catch yourself saying “I have to,” pause and ask, “How can I reframe this as something I get to do?” This simple practice can dramatically shift your inner dialogue and, consequently, your outer experiences.
Our energetic bodies are like magnets, attracting experiences that match our vibrational frequency. The words we choose – particularly the difference between “have to” and “get to” – play a crucial role in setting this frequency.
Imagine your energy field as a radio transmitter. Using “have to” tunes you into a frequency of obligation and resistance, while “get to” aligns you with a frequency of gratitude and opportunity. By consistently choosing “get to,” you’re tuning into a channel of abundance, joy, and positive experiences.
This doesn’t mean challenges will not occur, but you will be better equipped to handle them and find the lessons or blessings within them. Remember, like attracts like in the energetic realm. By consciously elevating your verbal and mental frequency through the use of “get to,” you’re inviting more high-vibration experiences into your life.
Remember, you are in charge of your frequency and vibration. By raising it through conscious language choices – particularly by embracing “get to” instead of “have to” – you open yourself to more positive experiences.
Focus on what you have the opportunity to do, not what you feel obligated to do. Try saying “I get to” with gratitude instead of “I have to” with reluctance, and watch how your reality begins to transform.
I have carefully curated and designed two Self-Awareness Toolkits to help you change the subconscious beliefs that are keeping you from creating the reality you desire. Begin your journey to self-awareness and empowerment today!
Wishing you empowerment and purpose through your words.
With love and gratitude,
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