The Transformative Power in our Words

There are THREE little WORDS most of us use every day without realizing their profound impact – “I have to.” These words have the power to drastically lower our vibration and keep us trapped in a MINDSET of obligation, burden, and VICTIMIZATION.

As a (re)Parenting coach, I’m passionate about helping clients rewire this disempowering language pattern. You see, we are energetic beings – walking, talking batteries radiating a certain frequency. And the words we use are spells, casting an energetic spell on our subconscious and lived reality.

When we say “I have to,” we’re essentially telling our psyche, “I’m not thrilled, but I have no choice.” These words vibrate at a frequency of resistance and lack of autonomy. However, shifting to “I get to” immediately raises our vibration to one of gratitude, presence, and empowerment.

“I get to go to work today” means I’m so grateful I have a job that allows me to pay my rent and feed my family. “I get to do the dishes” indicates we had a meal and are nourished, abundant in food. “I get to walk the dog” – I am so happy I have a pet who brings me joy.

Do you feel the difference between those statements? One is heavy, the other is light and full of appreciation.

This simple linguistic swap is a powerful (re)Parenting tool for reprogramming our subconscious. It allows us to reframe daily tasks and responsibilities not as burdens, but as gifts – opportunities to feel abundant, connected, and present.

When we speak with this vibrant, grateful language, we start to magnetize higher vibrational experiences. Our energy field shifts, and we project that positivity outwards, attracting more of what we desire.

Did you know that the very term “spelling” refers to the magical, spell-casting nature of language? The words we speak are not just arbitrary collections of letters – they are spells that we cast upon our subconscious minds and the world around us

Think about it – every time you utter an “I have to” or “I get to” statement, you’re activating a certain energetic vibration. Your words have the power to either lower your frequency or raise it, directly shaping your beliefs, emotions, and ultimately, your lived reality.

The (re)Parenting process is all about becoming aware of these word spells, and consciously rewriting the disempowering narratives that have kept you small. When you speak in a tone of gratitude, presence, and empowerment, you’re affirming to yourself and the Universe that you are the creator of your experience.

THREE Affirmations to (re)wire & (re)train You.

Say these affirmations to yourself as often as possible throughout the day for 30 days in a row, while tapping into what it feels like to be the master of your energetic field. Emotion is the key to manifestation, so go ahead and witness your own transformation happen!!

So as you reflect on the questions below, pay close attention to the language you’re using, both internally and externally. Notice how a simple shift in your word choice can dramatically alter your energy and outlook. This is the magic of (re)Parenting – using the tool of conscious language to manifest the life you were born to live.

Thought-Provoking Questions:

In what areas of my life am I still using disempowering “I have to” language? What small shifts could I make to reframe those obligations as gifts and opportunities?
How does the tone and energy shift when I replace "I have to" with "I get to"? What physical and emotional sensations do I notice within my body?
What limiting beliefs or subconscious programming might be driving my use of "I have to" statements? How can the (re)Parenting process help me unwind these disempowering patterns?

Be mindful of your words. Catch yourself in “I have to” mode, and consciously reframe it as “I get to.” Notice how this small shift makes you feel – more empowered, joyful, alive.

This is the essence of (re)Parenting – rewriting subconscious programming that has kept us small, so we can step into our fullest authentic expression of self.

And it all starts with the words we choose.

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